I've had extended family members (not-so-nice ones) say, after receiving save the dates, that they don't want to come to our ceremony because it's just not their thing. One of them, in the same breath, reminded me to include plus one on their invite and then asked what I was serving for dinner.
These relatives live close to the venue and do not work weekends. They just don't feel like coming to the ceremony but they want to be there for the alcohol, food, and family reunion. Okay, so maybe only one of them told me that they're not coming to the ceremony because they didn't feel like it. Since they're related to and talk to the others, I'm assuming they all have the same reason. I know, I assumed. But whatever, I just want to vent.
I know they get plus ones if they have SOs regardless of whether they're nice to me or not, and I said "oh, that's too bad, we'll miss you at the ceremony", but what an annoying thing to hear. Just wanted to vent and roll my eyes publicly. So far, this is tied as the rudest wedding-y thing I've experienced yet (the other being the florist who told me he didn't like my taste in flowers and I could only choose from the arrangements he'd done in the past).
What was the rudest wedding-y thing YOU experienced?