What's the ring bearer do then?

My fiance told me a few days ago that he doesn't want our ring bearer actually carrying our rings on the pillow and that he's never been to a wedding where the ring bearer does actually carry the rings. He said that the best man usually has them. Not really sure why he doesn't want him to carry the rings, and I can't remember how it went at the weddings that I've been to. Our wedding is less than a month away and I don't know what to do. We have a ring bearer and his parents have already rented the tuxedo. Input?

Comments

  • I completely agree with everything PP said. In addition, the last wedding I went to earlier this month, the ring bearer simply walked the flower girl down the aisle. I think the main point in these two positions is for them to look adorable.
  • Jap, he didn't even have a ring pillow? Maybe I'll do the same.
  • Our ring bearer is going to hold up a sign (Etsy) That says "Uncle Brian here comes yor girl."
  • Yeah we had the best man hold my ring and MOH held H's. ring bearer just looked adorable and walked.