weird question

LingerLonger1 · March 2013

In Response to Re: weird question:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: weird question : All I'm saying is that if girlfriend is planning on having a kid any time soon then BC might not be the best fix to not wanting your period on your wedding day, given the issues some people have with coming off of it and trying to conceive. It's not the end of the world to not consummate your marriage on your wedding night and I'm sure she won't be the first person to get her period on her wedding day. I'm biased because I had a hell of a time getting regular and wouldn't wish that on anyone who wants to get pregnant. /advice Is that better Linger?
Posted by PreDempsey[/QUOTE]
Way to project your own problems. It doesn't sound like she's had the same problem you have given she was on BC for 7 years per her PP and is now having a period again that she is worried about coinciding with her wedding.

You didn't offer a fix. You offered a chart and pray option. The way your previous post came across was that she should changer her wedding date if it doesn't match up. Now your advice is that it doesn't matter if you don't have sex on your wedding night. Maybe it's important to her to consummate her marriage on her wedding night. Maybe it's important to her FI.

PreDempsey · March 2013

Linger, I'm not trying to debate you on whether or not BC is going work or tell her DON'T DO IT! IT RUINS EVERYTHING.

Speaking from my own experience, as many other posters are, I'm saying since it is 13 months from now, it wouldn't be MY first choice. I was on the pill for five years and got my period plenty of times I didn't want it. It's not 100% but I'm just playing the other side of the field. I never said she should change her wedding day, or that it wasn't at all important to have sex on your wedding night but mother nature is going to happen regardless.

LingerLonger1 · March 2013

TXKristan · March 2013

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[QUOTE]Linger, I'm not trying to debate you on whether or not BC is going work or tell her DON'T DO IT! IT RUINS EVERYTHING. Speaking from my own experience, as many other posters are, I'm saying since it is 13 months from now, it wouldn't be MY first choice. I was on the pill for five years and got my period plenty of times I didn't want it. It's not 100% but I'm just playing the other side of the field. I never said she should change her wedding day, or that it wasn't at all important to have sex on your wedding night but mother nature is going to happen regardless.
Posted by PreDempsey[/QUOTE]
She needs to talk to her doctor. The Pill does waaaaaaay more than regulate her periods. And I would not suggest "playing" with hormones just so you can avoid a period on your wedding day.

Jessalyn2013 · March 2013

I think an important factor here is that not ALL BC stops periods completely.

OP you've done exactly what I was going to suggest- contact your doctor. Let them give you a list of options with pros/cons to each and how that may or may not affect trying to conceive.

lauraandjosh040613 · March 2013

Must be nice to have BC as an option. I'm allergic to it, so I can't take it. I'm never regular, so I didn't know until last month that it looks like my period will hit on my wedding day. Sigh. And we can't reschedule the honeymoon.

Done whining now! In the end, I'm still getting married to an amazing man, so it's worth it!

LingerLonger1 · March 2013

In Response to Re: weird question:
[QUOTE]Must be nice to have BC as an option. I'm allergic to it, so I can't take it. I'm never regular, so I didn't know until last month that it looks like my period will hit on my wedding day. Sigh. And we can't reschedule the honeymoon. Done whining now! In the end, I'm still getting married to an amazing man, so it's worth it!
Posted by lauraandjosh040613[/QUOTE]

tarradesign · March 2013

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: weird question :
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

Oh Linger. <3 You play the tiny violin song of my heart.

LingerLonger1 · March 2013

I love that gif. It really speaks to me

CourtaniaLynn · March 2013

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:weird question : Ah true! I am a WebMD trained doctor. I know all there is to know about doctoring.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

<div>WebMD: When it doubt, it's probably cancer.</div>

LingerLonger1 · March 2013

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re:weird question : WebMD: When it doubt, it's probably cancer.
Posted by CourtaniaLynn[/QUOTE]
It's ALWAYS cancer! ALWAYS!

misshart00 · March 2013

In Response to Re:weird question:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:weird question:In Response to Re:weird question : WebMD: When it doubt, it's probably cancer.Posted by CourtaniaLynnIt's ALWAYS cancer!nbsp; ALWAYS! Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

Yep. It told me I had throat cancer due to my coughing. And to go to the ER immediately since my coughing was high pitched. My coughing is always high pitched.

Peledreamsofrain · March 2013

In Response to Re:weird question:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: weird question:Linger, I'm not trying to debate you on whether or not BC is going work or tell her DON'T DO IT! IT RUINS EVERYTHING. Speaking from my own experience, asnbsp;many other posters are, I'm saying since it is 13 months from now, it wouldn't be MY first choice.nbsp; I was on the pill for five years and got my period plenty of times I didn't want it. It's not 100 but I'm just playing the other side of the field.nbsp;I never said she should change her wedding day, or that it wasn't at allnbsp;important to have sex on your wedding night but mother nature is going to happen regardless.Posted by PreDempseyShe needs to talk to her doctor. nbsp;The Pill does waaaaaaay more than regulate her periods. nbsp;And I would not suggest "playing" with hormones just so you can avoid a period on your wedding day. Posted by TXKristan[/QUOTE]

Heh, I did that. I've beeb using my BC for years, and know how to manipulate it into missing a period. It's fine to do one time. Your body won't back up abd run out your ears or anything.

Ok I just grossed myself out. :

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