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TXKristan said: In Response to Re: Will I have a m.i.a bm on my big day?:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Will I have a m.i.a bm on my big day? : Good point Kristan. Guess I'm just cranky tonight. I'm glad I was able to be there for them and help them out, and overall, its a positive experience that I look back upon. I guess I just always assume my friends share in my excitement, but I also really love weddings (maybe more than most).Posted by rb1734a[/QUOTE] And that's understandable to be disappointed that they don't share that same excitement. Just don't hold it over them. Also remember that a true gift is when you expect nothing in return. And, you have a forum of a bunch if women who can give you advice about how things work. Many of us are married old hags who have been there. We like weddings too and are happy to share wisdom from our own exoeriences.